|Sharman-Caselli Tarot Deck|
(c) St. Martin's Press 2002
They fall in love with someone, who hasn't been truthful about their legal status at first, but they are "too far gone" to pull out without facing the emotional pain of a breakup.
Or they knew right from the start, but embarked on the doomed affair thinking they'd met the love of their life rather than thinking straight.
Women especially can get entangled in such a relationship, hoping it will go somewhere.
And when all they get are a few hours a week of rushed love for months on end, they begin to wonder, if this will ever change.
At that point, I receive reading requests: "Will he leave his wife for me?" or "When will he leave his wife for me?"
Before you spend money on a reading, here is a helpful statistic for you:
95% of men, who have an affair, won't leave their wives.
Are you hoping to be one of the lucky 5%?
Sure, we often hear stories about men running off with the mistress only to return to their wives a few months later.
Because once the secret of the affair has been revealed, the thrill tends to fade and men become disillusioned with their once so exciting lover-on-the-side.
Perhaps he's been telling you that he wants to leave his wife, or he keeps talking about his marital problems and issues, which may lead you to think that you have a good chance.
I'd hate to break it to you, but no. No chance. Unless he has made concrete plans about leaving his marriage behind, he will only use you as an exciting distraction from his otherwise mundane life.
Especially when there are children involved, it will be even less likely he'll leave his family. And if he does, beware! He could easily do the same to you at one point in the future.
If you make the conscious choice about having a relationship with a married man, you need to let go of any illusion that he will leave his wife.
You need to accept that he can only spend a few hours a week with you, sometimes even less. He could dump you at any time, especially when he feels under pressure or he's getting bored of you.
If he is a decent man, who knows his responsibilities, his family will always come first, and you will come last.
There is unlikely to be happy-ever-after with this relationship. Be prepared for that.
Perhaps you are at a point, where you feel alone and desperate. Then now is a good time to reconnect with your friends and rebuild your own social life.
You may have been at your lover's beck and call, which over time will have put you in a position of isolation and powerlessness.
It's time to regain your power.
Now is the time to detach yourself from your lover and do your own thing. When he asks to see you for a few hours, say "no" and arrange to meet up with friends instead.
Start to learn to be more independent again.
Get your life back.
Tell your lover to go and fix his marriage. He shouldn't leave his marriage for you but for the fact that his marriage can no longer be fixed, but he's put all his effort into saving it. It can be tough getting accused of being a home wrecker.
Ok, would you still like to explore your options with an email reading? With a 3-card reading we can explore
- current energies surrounding your relationship
- what you can do to get this relationship moving (one way or the other)
- overall staying power of this relationship (outlook)
Depending on your individual circumstances, I can adjust this reading to give you best possible guidance.
Hey girlfriend, let's sort this mess out once and for all!
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